...mrrightandmrsalwaysright...

Ok wedding #3 is coming up!!
This weekend!!

I am excited.  But this wedding is again proving how I operate.

-  I have the dress and shoes BUT I am delaying trying dress on again. 
    Thus I am constantly plagued with unfounded (I hope) fear that it won't fit now.
-  I have to figure out what to do with hair style.  doh.
-  I wanted to get hair colored... now I may have to do myself.
-  I had big ideas for fun presents... and now will have to give them to them later.

Why o why am I such a procrastinator??

I could blame having 3 littles.
But I 've been this way my whole life.
I could blame the fact its fall, and fall is so busy.
But I had plenty of time to plan.
I could blame... myself.
And that would be right!
But why blame? 
Instead, live and learn.

So.....  now through Saturday will be filled with WEDDING!!

My fun bride-to-be-friend posted this today to us bridesmaids today:

"Just so you realize...your lives could be MUCH worse. Now, get back to scanning my Pinterest board, constantly checking your phones for my calls & then when you see I haven't called you call me to see if I am okay, facebook stalking me... NOW!"

I better get going!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Cutest couple EVER!!
soon to be
Mr. Right and Mrs. Always Right\
:)



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...thankful for so much...

1.  Doesn't get better than Greek God's Yogurt - delish!

2.  I found my dresses for the weddings!  ta da!  (Now to get rid of tan lines...)

3.  Audrey at puttingmetogether.com - love her style and attitude and look!

4.  My handsome man - in his little ring-dude outfit!

5.  And little man #2 right after he caught his very first fish!!

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...speaking of weddings...

Sooooo did I mention this is a summer of weddings??

And I have been BLESSED and am so excited

to play a different role in all three.

The first

my oldest son will be the ring bearer.

The other two

I will get to be part of the wedding party.

I am so happy for the my friends

And their futures

And this day

And its all about them!

But I finding I have to remind myself of that.

Instead of getting consumed with...

well...

ME.

What will I wear?

How can I lose 20 lbs in 3 weeks?

Why didn't I start diet sooner?

Will they have someone to do my hair?

How about wedding make up?

What will I look like in the pictures?

Yep, its true.
Yuck huh???

Its not about me.
But I am finding I have to work.
For some reason this
selfish
comparison
judgey
all-about-me
attitude keeps sneaking up on me.

Its like brides-maid-zilla!!

But I will tame that thing.
I will keep my mind and prayers focused on their big day.
On getting to be a part of their history.
On getting to pray and speak into the start of their marriage.
On being a
blessing
servant
friend.

And I will succeed.
And if my hair looks funny
Or I look frumpy in pictures...
I will get to a point where I can say

Who cares?

And it will not rob my joy!!
Or take my focus from the important.

Enough said!!

Yay for weddings!!

(now I just have to figure out what to wear!)