...mrrightandmrsalwaysright...

Ok wedding #3 is coming up!!
This weekend!!

I am excited.  But this wedding is again proving how I operate.

-  I have the dress and shoes BUT I am delaying trying dress on again. 
    Thus I am constantly plagued with unfounded (I hope) fear that it won't fit now.
-  I have to figure out what to do with hair style.  doh.
-  I wanted to get hair colored... now I may have to do myself.
-  I had big ideas for fun presents... and now will have to give them to them later.

Why o why am I such a procrastinator??

I could blame having 3 littles.
But I 've been this way my whole life.
I could blame the fact its fall, and fall is so busy.
But I had plenty of time to plan.
I could blame... myself.
And that would be right!
But why blame? 
Instead, live and learn.

So.....  now through Saturday will be filled with WEDDING!!

My fun bride-to-be-friend posted this today to us bridesmaids today:

"Just so you realize...your lives could be MUCH worse. Now, get back to scanning my Pinterest board, constantly checking your phones for my calls & then when you see I haven't called you call me to see if I am okay, facebook stalking me... NOW!"

I better get going!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Cutest couple EVER!!
soon to be
Mr. Right and Mrs. Always Right\
:)



...peer pressure...

peer pressure

procrastination

last minute stress

bad things?

yes, probably

but if it works...

what am I gonna do??

been focusing on the house.

reading.

researching.

getting inspired online.

and actually doing

NOTHING

NADA

ZILCH.

until finally someone is coming over.

flylady.net crisis cleaning

motivation

get-er-done-ness

FINALLY KICKS IN

And my house is clean!

Clean-er.

Clean-er than its been in AGES.

I had someone over!

And they are coming once a week.

Hey - if it takes peer pressure to motivate me

Than lets do it!

(also doing a coolio Bible/life study with this couple....

so soul and house getting addressed.)

...CHAOS...

Can't

Have

Anyone

Over

Syndrome

Have you ever suffered from this??  I am a constant repeat performer in this area.  On one hand, I am ok with it because I choose to put people and time with my boys ahead of a house.  For some reason, I just haven't had that pressure I know lots of my friends have - to have a perfectly decorated and in order home with the stress that goes along with that.

But 5 years and 3 little boys later, I have swung WAY TOO FAR to the other side of the scale.  You know there's a balance... I am unbalanced and its on the CHAOS side of things. 

Main issue - I have too much stuff.  I should say, we have too much stuff.  Way too much.  I can get it all straightened and put away, but its not really organized and it takes (and I have timed it) about 3 hours before we're back to CHAOS. 

I also would rather do about 100 other things than dive in.  Like I'd rather blog about it.... O wait.  Whoops!  Is that what I'm doing now?????  BUSTED! 

I'll go get to it!!!!  :)